Life is full of moments, some are HAPPY moments and some are SAD moments. When you're HAPPY, you make others also happy, but in some situations you'll be SAD, at that time don't think about that situation which makes you sad, stop thinking about that and think happy moments in your life, read the passbook story.

Priya married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Priya’s mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook with Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: Priya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life.

When there’s something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in and write down what it’s about next to the line.

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in.

I’ve done the first one for you today, do the others with Hitesh.

When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you’ve had.

Priya shared this with Hitesh when getting home.

They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:

- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Priya

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Priya got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

…. and so on…

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things.

They didn’t talk much.

They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world…. no more love…

Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Priya talked to her Mother:

‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree to divorce.

I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!’

Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal.

Just do whatever you want if you really can’t stand it.

But before that, do one thing first.

Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day?

Take out all money and spend it first.

You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.’

Priya thought it was true.

So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record.

She looked, and looked, and looked.

Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind.

Her eyes were then filled with tears.

She left and went home.

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Priya.

She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record:

‘This is the day I notice how much I've loved you throughout all these years.

How much happiness you've brought me.’

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired?

I did not ask.

I believe the money did not matter anymore after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.

P.S.: Life is about the moments you create, that u can keep it with you FOREVER. After everything is over, THAT is what we have or what we are left with.
It is Not Important To have Long Friend List On Facebook & WhatsApp..
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But It is important to have at least one Friend Who Can Read ur Face As a Book and ask what's up?

Its a nice story try to apply in your life ☺

Don't be harsh on anyone, especially with your loved ones, you always have problems, not only you everybody have problems. One day those problems will solve and you can recover, but if you hurt anyone for your problems, you can't get them back. A small story to tell why we don't be harsh, its in Telugu, use www.translate.google.com to translate it into English.

చక్కని ఎద్దు కధ

అనగనగా గోపయ్య అనే రైతు దగ్గర ఒక గొప్ప ఎద్దు ఉండేది... అది చాలా బలంగా ఉండేది. అయినా అది చాలా శాంతంగా ఉండేది. గోపయ్య ఏ పని చెబితే దాన్ని, చాలా ఇష్టంగా చేసి పెట్టేది.

గోపయ్య కూడా ఆ ఎద్దును చాలా ప్రేమగా, జాగ్రత్తగా చూసుకునేవాడు. దాన్ని అస్సలు కొట్టేవాడు కాదు. దాని మీద ఈగను కూడా వాలనిచ్చేవాడు కాదు. ఆ ఎద్దు గురించి అందరితోనూ గొప్పగా చెప్పేవాడు.

ఒకసారి గోపయ్య ఊళ్ళో పెద్ద మనుషులతో మాట్లాడుతూ "నా ఎద్దు నూరు బండ్లను ఒకేసారి లాగేస్తుంది- కావాలంటే వెయ్యి నాణేలు పందెం" అనేశాడు. కొందరు ఆ మాటను వినీ విననట్టు ఊరుకున్నారు కానీ, గోపన్న అంటే సరిపోనివాళ్ళు కొందరు జట్టు కట్టి, "పందెం అంటే పందెం" అన్నారు.

పందెం రోజు రానే వచ్చింది. ఊళ్ళో వాళ్ళు నూరు బండ్లనూ వరుసగా ఒకదాని వెనుక ఒకటి కట్టి ఉంచారు. గోపయ్య ఎద్దును తెచ్చి మొదటి బండికి కట్టాడు. ఎద్దుకు ఇదంతా కొత్తగా ఉంది. అయినా యజమాని తెచ్చి నిలబెట్టాడు గనక, అట్లా ఊరికే నిలబడిందది. అందరూ 'లాగు లాగు' అన్నారు. కానీ ఎద్దు మాత్రం కదల్లేదు. గోపయ్య ఏం చెబుతాడోనని ఎదురు చూస్తూ అది అట్లానే నిలబడి ఉన్నది.

గోపయ్యకు తల తీసేసినట్లయింది. 'ఎద్దు బళ్ళను ఎందుకు లాగట్లేదు?' అని చికాకు మొదలైంది- ఆ చికాకులో 'తను దానికి లాగమని చెప్పనేలేదు' అని అతనికి గుర్తుకే రాలేదు. పైపెచ్చు, అది 'నా పరువు తీస్తోంది' అని చటుక్కున కోపం కూడా వచ్చేసింది: "వెయ్యి నాణేలు... పోగొట్టకు! వెయ్యి నాణేలు!! ఎప్పుడైనా చూశావా? అంత తిండి తినేది ఎందుకట, ఈ మాత్రం లాగలేవా?!" అని తిడుతూ, అందరు రైతుల లాగానే తనూ దాన్ని మొరటుగా చర్నాకోలతో కొట్టటం మొదలు పెట్టాడు అతను.

గోపయ్య అంతకు ముందు ఎన్నడూ దానితో కోపంగా మాట్లాడలేదు. ఏనాడూ దాన్ని తిట్టలేదు; ఒక్క దెబ్బకూడా వెయ్యలేదు! మరి ఇప్పుడు అతను అంత కోపంగా అరవటం, పైపెచ్చు చర్నాకోలతో కొట్టటం ఎద్దుకు ఏమాత్రం నచ్చలేదు. దాంతో అది పూర్తిగా మొండికేసింది- ఒక్క అడుగు కూడా ముందుకు వేయలేదు. దాన్ని కొట్టీ కొట్టీ అలసిపోయిన గోపయ్య పదిమందిలోనూ ఓటమిని అంగీకరించాల్సి వచ్చింది. డబ్బుతోబాటు పరువునూ పోగొట్టుకొని, తలవంచుకొని ఇల్లు చేరుకున్నాడతను.

"గతంలో అవసరం ఉన్నప్పుడు చాలా సార్లు ఈ ఎద్దే వంద బండ్లను అలవోకగా లాగేసింది గదా, మరి ఇవాళ్ల ఎందుకు లాగలేదు?!" అన్న ఆలోచన రాలేదు, కోపంతో రగిలిపోతున్న గోపయ్యకు. అయితే ఆరోజు సాయంత్రం చూసేసరికి, ఎద్దు మేత మేయకుండా- స్తబ్దుగా నిలబడి ఉన్నది. దాని ఒంటినిండా చర్నాకోల వాతలు- ఆ గాయాల చుట్టూ ఈగలు ముసురుతుంటే అది విసురుకోవటం కూడా లేదు. గోపయ్య వంకే చూస్తూ కన్నీరు కారుస్తున్నది!

దాన్ని చూసే సరికి గోపయ్య హృదయం ద్రవించింది. దాని గాయాలకు మలాం రాస్తూ అతను తన తప్పును గ్రహించాడు: 'ఈ మూగ జంతువుకూ హృదయం ఉంది. తన మాట నెగ్గాలన్న తొందరలో తను దాన్ని అనవసరంగా, కౄరంగా శిక్షించాడు. సున్నితమైన దాని మనసుకు గాయం కలిగించాడు!'

గోపయ్య కళ్ల నీళ్ళతో దానికి క్షమాపణ చెప్పుకొని, నిమిరి, ముద్దుచేసి, దగ్గర చేసుకున్నాడు. అతని మనసును గ్రహించిన ఎద్దు కూడా కొంత కుదుటపడ్డది.

తెలివి తెచ్చుకున్న గోపయ్య తర్వాతి రోజున మళ్ళీ గ్రామస్తులతో పందెం కాశాడు. 'ఈసారి పందెం రెండు వేల నాణేలు' అన్నారు గ్రామస్తులు. ఈసారి గోపయ్య ఎద్దుని కొట్టలేదు సరికదా, కనీసం అదిలించను కూడా లేదు. ప్రేమగా వీపు నిమిరి, 'లాగురా!' అనేసరికి, ఎద్దు వంద బండ్లనూ లాక్కొని ముందుకు ఉరికింది!

గోపయ్య పందెం నెగ్గటమే కాదు; జీవితాంతం‌ ఉపకరించే పాఠం ఒకటి నేర్చుకున్నాడు- 'ఎంత తొందర, ఎంత చికాకు ఉన్నా సరే, మనసుల్ని మటుకు గాయపరచకూడదు' అని.

చక్కని ఈ కథని మళ్ళీ ఓసారి చదవగలరని కోరుతూ...

జాగ్రత్తగా చూస్తే, పసి పిల్లలలో కూడా అనంతమైన శక్తి దాగి ఉన్నది.

ప్రేమ, ఆప్యాయతలు వాళ్ళు తమ ఈ శక్తిని వాస్తవీకరించుకునేందుకు సహాయపడతాయి. మంచి ఉపాధ్యాయులు అందరూ పిల్లల హృదయాల్ని అర్థం చేసుకొని సున్నితమైన మనసులతోటి సున్నితంగానే ప్రవర్తించాలి

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సమాజంలో మార్పుకోసం కృషి చేయండి...

You have have great ideas and plans, but sometimes you let fear stop them dead in their tracks. Fear is only as deep as your mind allows. You are still in control. The key is to acknowledge your fear and directly address it. You must step right up and confront it face to face. This tactic robs fear of its power, instead of fear robbing YOU of… Is fear stopping you from moving forward? 

Everything you want is on the other side of fear. Don't ever hesitate to give yourself a chance to be everything you are capable of being. Don't be too hard on yourself. There are plenty of people willing to do that for you. Do your best and surrender the rest. Tell yourself, “I am doing the best I can with what I have in this moment. That is all I can ever expect of anyone, including me.” Love yourself and be proud of everything you do, even your mistakes, because your mistakes mean you’re trying.

But what happens when most people think about doing something? 
Quite often they allow fear to step in and fear stops them dead in their tracks. Once fear sets in, indecision follows. With indecision comes delaying. With delaying comes paralysis, and nothing changes. Fear of change is one choice. Unfortunately, the choice too many people make is to allow fear of the unknown rule their lives. 

The other choice is to do the opposite. Don't think about it, "Just do it". If I just go and do it, what is the worst thing that can happen? Right, I fail. And if I fail, what is the outcome? 
Sometimes you have to fail often to succeed once. But that fear of failure stops you from even trying. That is one of the reasons why people delay. They think about it too much. If you just do it and fail, what is the worst thing that can happen? You will learn a lesson. If you really want to succeed, you may have to overcome fear and double your failure rate. 

Your biggest fears are completely dependent on you for their survival. Every new day is another chance to change your life, and it’s way too short to let fear interfere. Today, focus your conscious mind on things you desire, not things you fear. Doing so can bring your dreams to life.

My name is Nick Vujicic and I am thankful to have been born 30 years ago with no arms and no legs. I won't pretend my life is easy, but through the love of my parents, loved ones, and faith in God, I have overcome my adversity and my life is now filled with joy and purpose. I reside now in California with my wife, Kanae, and we both love seeing people’s lives changed for the better or touched in some way. It is my hope that your life is positively impacted by my story.

I was born and raised in Melbourne, Australia, and it was a shock to my parents that I arrived without limbs. There is no medical reason for it. My parents did their very best to keep me in the mainstream school system and give me every opportunity to live to the fullest. I was blessed to have a brother and a sister as my best friends too.

We later moved to Brisbane, Australia, where I lived for 14 years before I made the move to California. At age eight, I could not see a bright future ahead and I became depressed. When I was ten years old, I decided to end my life by drowning myself in a bathtub. After a couple attempts, I realized that I did not want to leave my loved ones with the burden and guilt that would result from my suicide. I could not do that to them.

I wasn’t depressed my entire childhood, but I did have ups and downs. At age thirteen I hurt my foot, which I use for many things like typing, writing and swimming. That injury made me realize that I need to be more thankful for my abilities and less focused on my disabilities.

When I was fifteen years old, I sealed my faith in God and from there it has been an amazing journey.

A janitor at my high school inspired me to start speaking about my faith and overcoming adversity when I was seventeen. I spoke only a dozen times to very small groups over the next two years. Then I found myself in front of three hundred sophomore (grade 10) students and I was very nervous. My knees were shaking. Within the first three minutes of my talk, half the girls were crying, and most of the boys were struggling to hold their emotions together. One girl in particular was sobbing very hard. We all looked at her and she put her hand up. She said, “I am so sorry to interrupt, but can I come up and hug you?”

She came hugged me in front of everyone, and whispered in my ear, “Thank you, thank you, thank you. No one has ever told me that they loved me and that I am beautiful the way I am.”

Her gratitude inspired me to go across 44 countries and speak 2,000 times. I realized that we all need love and hope and that I was in a unique position to share that with people around the world.

While majoring in both accounting and financial planning at a university, I also worked on developing my abilities as a speaker. I worked with a speaking coach who helped to cultivate me as a presenter. He especially worked on my body language as my hands flew everywhere at first!

I spoke on motivational topics after creating the company, attitude is altitude. I also launched a non-profit ministry, life without limbs, to spread my messages of faith and hope around the world.

Whoever you are, wherever you’re from and whatever you are dealing with, I hope that you will be inspired by my story and my message. Please enjoy browsing around this website where I share with you my thoughts on faith, hope and love to encourage you and to help you overcome your own challenges.

Dream big my friend and never give up. We all make mistakes, but none of us are mistakes. Take one day at a time. Embrace the positive attitudes, perspectives, principles and truths I share, and you too will overcome.

Source: http://www.attitudeisaltitude.com/about-nick-his-story

Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. Don't think about the past, you can't change it and remember that there is nothing you can do to change the past. You can change the present and the future, especially by learning from your past. But you can't change the past. It doesn't do any good to worry about something that you have absolutely no control over.

The other thing you can do is to look at the positive side of your experiences. It's important to remember the bad experiences that you went through so that you can learn from them, but it's also important to not dwell on the emotions too much. Remember what happened, detach yourself a little bit from the emotions, draw your conclusions about what you would do differently in the future, and then move on.

Its not the past event that makes us feel bad but its rather our lack of ability to have a better future. If the future appeared to be prosperous then the painful past memories will become happy memories. That’s why most of the people forget about their old relationship whenever they start a new one, its just because the future became bright once again. The past only hurts those who can’t see signs of light in the near future. If they were sure that the future will be bright the past won't be able to affect their lives.

Examine your past and find those events which are causing you much pain then visualize the type of future which can make those events become painless. If you lost lots of money then being rich will wipe out this memory, if you broke up with someone then finding someone better will help you forget this relationship and if you had a painful experience then taking the necessarily actions that guarantees that this event wont happen again will make you forget about it.