Who ever they are, whatever they are, everybody make mistakes and we make mistakes every day, it's human nature and mistakes are proof that we are trying. When you fail, you learn from that mistakes you made and it motivates you to work even harder. Mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before.
When you made a mistake, don't blame others, as soon as you start blaming others for your mistakes you distance yourself from any possible lesson from that mistake. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say "This is my mistake and I am responsible" the possibilities for learning will move towards you. It's never easy to admit you've made a mistake, but it's a crucial step in learning, growing, and improving yourself. Admission of your mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blaming assignment and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes easily.
Noticing and admitting our mistakes helps us get in touch with our commitments:
what we really want to be,
what we really want to do, and
what we really want to have.
Mistakes wake us up and focus our attention like a flashing sign that says "fix this".
We live and act in ways to prevent mistakes, not taking risks, expanding our comfort zones or jumping outside the boxes we hide in. But our mistakes and failures are gifts in our learning and growth as people. Don't worry about friends, family and others, people who love and care about us will stick with us through all our flaws and floundering. Facing mistakes often takes us straight to the heart of our fears. And when we experience and face those fears, they can disappear.
0 comments :
Post a Comment